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Christmas tree honors domestic violence victims

Posted at 12:39 PM, Nov 17, 2017
and last updated 2017-11-17 13:48:47-05

Last year set a record in Wisconsin for the number of people who died from domestic violence. One group is working to make sure victims' names and faces aren't forgotten.

Ask some kids watching the Christmas parade in Berlin what their favorite part of holiday season is and, except for a few exceptions, they’ll all say spending time with their family. 

But some families won't be able to enjoy festive activities like this with their loved ones.

Unique ornaments adorn one of the trees lighting up Nathan Strong Park, with pictures and placards for 57 people, all who've lost their lives to domestic violence in Wisconsin this year. 

"It's important to highlight them because for one we don't want them forgotten and for two to spread awareness. This can happen to any family at any time and in any neighborhood," said Heather Lawler, founder of Traja. 

Each card isn't just a picture of a victim, it also tells you a little bit of their story. On their back is where they're from, their age, their name, and the day they died. 

Lawler started Traja, an anti-domestic violence organization, to honor her friend and friend's daughter who were both murdered eight years ago. 

This is just one of her efforts to get the word out. She says she loves when people stop and take a look at the tree.

"It warms my heart because i get to shine a light on victims of domestic violence," said Lawler. 

Lawler's work isn't just ornamental. She's also working with lawmakers to get a law passed making a third domestic violence offense, no matter where in the country it happened, a felony.

If you or someone you know needs help you can call the national domestic violence hotline at 800-799-SAFE.

You can also contact Traja or End Domestic Abuse Wisconsin